
Thursday, October 16, 2008
DAY PLUS 91 - OCTOBER 16, 2008

Friday, September 19, 2008
DAY PLUS 53 - SEPTEMBER 8, 2008

Toronto at Sick Kids. We chose not to have the bone marrow transplant done in Ottawa......and I'm really glad we did.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
DAY PLUS 49 - SEPTEMBER 4, 2008
Mr. T continues to do very well. His counts are coming up all the time. It is very difficult keeping him in his room. He contstantly wants to go to the kitchen to eat or to get snacks. I have asked the doctors to rethink their decision....as I can't control the level of cleanliness in the house as there are too many families staying here......while I CAN control the amount of visitors to my house. They will let me know next Monday if we can leave to go home and come back once a week for his blood work. It may be twice a week when there are other clinics to attend. It will be really great to finally get home.
Monday, September 1, 2008
DAY PLUS 46 - SEPTEMBER 1, 2008

Sunday, August 31, 2008
OH NO......YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING!

I don't believe this!!!! On Friday, when Dr. R came to visit us...she mentionned vaguely about '100 days after transplant' we need to be in-hospital. I replied..."WHAT DID YOU SAY?? Don't even go there!"....and with that she said....'Well, tomorrow Dr. B will be on and she's in charge of transplants so she is the one to ask.'
We came here to Cheo because we were told that it was wise to make sure that Mr. T got a clean bill of health....and what was another week?? maybe only 2 or 3 days...and we were fine with that. We were told if Mr. T did not need platelets or blood products...and his counts were good....we could go HOME and come to clinic twice a week.
We had plans!! Mr. T wrote on MSN...(I'll be home in 3 days). We were looking forward to going home....and everyone was looking forward to us coming home! Hubby and Uncle have been very busy in the past 3 weeks. They removed all the carpeting from my house and put in hardwood floors...better to control the dust & germs. They painted all the upstairs and freshened up the house. They worked non-stop in preparation of our coming home.
My granddaughter is so happy that finally we'll be home. She tells me everyday how much she misses us. It's been a very difficult 5 months for her.
But the flippin' plan has changed.....
When Dr. B walked in...I said.."I'm glad to see you....as YOU are going to tell us what DAY we'll be going home this week."
Then the fun began.......first she told us...that NO...she wasn't in charge...It was Dr. R that was in charge....and we both looked at her and said......"DON'T EVEN GO THERE - Dr. R said YOU are in charge. It's very confusing if the doctors don't know who's in charge.
Yes..I was upset...very upset and I let them know that I didn't appreciate being told at this late stage of the game that we would have to stay an additional 2 months. They believe that Mr. T is high-risk for infections....and seeing that we live 1- 1/2 hrs away......if he should get a fever...it would really soar before we could get here and Mr. T would end up in ICU or worse.
I understand their concern.......I understand there is a chance of this happening....I understand that Mr. T's health takes priority........BUT WHY THE HELL DIDN'T ANYBODY TELL US BEFORE THIS???
Why did they pick NOW to tell us? If they would have told me this last month...I would have prepared mentally & emotionally for it.........and so would Mr. T.
Mr. T was so excited that when his Uncle drove us here from Toronto...he told his uncle to bring home all his play systems and games...as we would be following shortly. He sent everything home in anticipation of the big day. Even when we got here...the staff asked how long we would be here...and we replied...oh, just a few days for a check-up and we're on our way. Nobody told us different. We were led to believe that if Mr. T was not attached to any pole....we were on our way. Everyone encouraged our thinking and beliefs. Even the interlink nurse said she would make sure to get in touch with the tutor for this week.
Well....to say I LOST IT........is putting it mildly! I let the staff know that there was a 'complete lack of communication' here.......nobody was on the same page.......hell...they weren't even reading the same book. There is no excuse for this! On top of that....'to be passing the buck' and not taking ownership...blaming each other....not knowing who was in charge.....is too much!
Then one of the Dr's said..."I don't like it when you raise your voice at me....so keep it down!"
Whoa......I told him....'Too damn bad what you don't like....we don't like being told one thing...and now that's changed. I am damn upset and I won't apologize for it. When I get angry or upset...I get louder...and that's fine too. I'm allowed to be angry...I'm allowed to be upset....and if it bothers him......too damn bad! I'm not in a popularity contest here!
We were led to believe if everything went well......and it did.....and if Mr. T did not need platelets or blood products...that we'd go home and come twice a week for check-ups. Nobody told us different....up till this week....when it finally occurred to them...that I live 1- 1/2 hrs away.
At this late stage of the game....we should have known what was expected of us....everybody knew our plans and nobody said a thing.....not till we asked what day we were going home!
As it stands now....we plan to be in-hospital for another week. Then we will stay at Ronald Mcdonald house for 2 months and just come here twice a week for check-ups. Mr. T is not happy about this. He was told that he would have to stay in the room at RMH...no socializing...he would have to eat in the room as well. We would get his Uncle to bring up his game systems and games and television set. He'd rather stay in the hospital...and have people come in and out of the room...and go to the playroom...but thats not feasible. They need the bed here. For Mr. T...this would be like going from a jail cell to solitary....and I'm very upset for him. He had plans to go fishing and getting his hunting licence. All this will have to wait.
Friday....Mr. T had an x-ray done...they noticed a small spot on his right lung....so today we went for another x-ray. We don't know the results yet.
T's counts continue upward....his appetite is back...he's eating and drinking well...and for this I'm truly grateful.
Friday, August 29, 2008
DAY PLUS 43 - AUGUST 29, 2008
We are now back at Cheo Hospital. What a nice warm reception we got. We arrived Wednesday at 7 p.m., and they already had a room prepared with his name on the door.Tuesday, August 26, 2008
DAY PLUS 40 - AUGUST 26, 2008

Monday, August 25, 2008
DAY PLUS 39 - AUGUST 25, 2008
A doctor finally came to see Mr. T yesterday at 4...........over 24 hrs after I asked for a doctor. He didn't seem too concerned because Mr. T had no fever or runny nose.This morning when our primary doctor came back from vacation...I let him know my concerns. A cold can easily lead to pneumonia and ICU and much worse. This happened at Cheo when he got HAP (hospital acquired pneumonia).
Our doctor said I had every reason to be concerned and right away ordered a nasal swab test...and had him cough into a specimen jar and we are waiting on results from the lab. The doctor is also calling Cheo to find out if they have a bed for Mr. T. They don't want me to go straight home as I still live 1 1/2 hrs from the hospital....and Mr. T is still very high risk for infections. Better safe than sorry.
This afternoon they informed me...that Mr. T was one of the patients here who ate Maple Leaf products the very first week we came here...so he will also be carefully monitored for LISTERIA....which can lead to fevers, severe headaches and nausea.
Apparently many consumers got very sick and a number of them died from ingesting products made at the Maple Leaf plant here in North York, Toronto.
Patients contract listeriosis after consuming foods contaminated with listeria monocytogenes.
Public health officials have warned that food contaminated with listeria may not look or smell like it has spoiled.
Listeriosis can cause flu-like symptoms, such as a stiff neck, headache, nausea and fever.
Healthy individuals may remain symptom-free. However, pregnant women, the elderly and people with weakened immune systems are at greatest risk.
THE good news...is Mr. T's counts continue to rise. His WBC (white blood cells) are 8.9 from 7.9 and his Neutropolys are 5.89 from 2.78.
Today he had chicken noodle soup for breakfast, and the same for lunch and he's drinking a lot more. Because of his cold...he is not permitted to walk the halls, but at least he's watching television now and playing games. I should know by Wednesday if we are staying or going. Chances are we'll be leaving at the end of the week if there aren't anymore complications.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
THAT'S IT...........

Saturday, August 23, 2008
DAY PLUS 37 - AUGUST 23, 2008
Today wasn't a good day! Mr. T threw up a few times....so breakfast was out! And because he didn't drink his quota today...they had to hook him back up to the saline......so no exercise either.It seems like 1 step forward and 2 back.....but I'm not complaining. We're getting there slow but sure.
He did have 2 cans of diet ginger ale at 335 ml each.......but that's still not enough...they want him to drink at least 1,000 ml! I'm not going to push it....he cried from frustration....he thinks I'm pushing him too much to eat and drink...just because I want to get home soon.......and I assured him that's not the case. I'm just following the Dr's orders. But perhaps it is too much for Mr. T....maybe his body needs more time to recuperate, and he's extremely frustrated that he can't do what we demand..... and thats okay with me. Iknow we're on the last leg of our journey.....so I'm willing to let Mr. T go at his own pace. I think we are both frustrated & very homesick.
Today he also tried to eat....2 oz of chicken and a bite of a roasted potato...and a handful of chips.
4 days ago...I told his nurse that I thought Mr. T was coming down with a cold.....but unless he has a drippy nose or fever...they don't do anything. The next day...I told the nurse...I think his cough is worse....still....if he has no fever, no phlegm, well they don't bother.
Today...Mr. T was coughing a lot more....so this time I insisted that I want the Doctor to check him out.....his cough sounds phlegmy to me!
She told the doctor on call at 4 p.m.......and we waited & waited......and waited.
Everytime she came into the room...I asked her if the doctor was coming as I don't like the sound of his cough....a harsh, dry hacking cough.........and yes, she said...he was coming any time now.
My constant fear is that a simple cough can turn into pneumonia.......and we don't want or need any complications right now.........and still we waited. It is now 9 p.m.....and still no doctor.
Yes it is a Saturday.....so there is less staff.......I understand that...and this is a large hospital...so we have to be patient.
Friday, August 22, 2008
DAY PLUS 36 - AUGUST 22, 2008
Today's counts are very confusing. White blood cells are 4.8...down from 6.5 & Neutropolys are 2.78...down from 3.54. They say its normal for the numbers to fluctuate....then why have they not been fluctuating in the past 2 weeks...they were just going one way and that was up?? I really think the lab can make mistakes or the blood test wasn't a good one. Our nurse today tells me they look for consistency and patterns...to look for a trend. If the numbers keep going down...then they want to know why! I will be closely watching the numbers in the next few days....and they'd better be going up!I understand this could also happen if you have a viral infection. Hmmm!
Yesterday Mr. T did have breakfast but threw it up. Later he ate one pierogi and kept that down. He is trying.
Today he ate one bite of waffles and said they had a metallic taste. The 3 cookies he ate were fine...and so was the Oh Henry! He is drinking a lot more fluid as well.. If he keeps this up...we are sure to go home by Tuesday or Wednesday.
The physiotherapist came to see us today. She gave Mr. T some homework to do till Monday. He is to go for a 10 min. walk (in the halls) twice a day....as well as some calf stretches and one flight of stairs a day.
Today we walked the hallways.....he wasn't attached to the machine.....he wore a mask....he did some stretching exercises with the therapist....he was on the computer for a few hours as well. I'm very happy with his attempts at walking and eating.
Finally.....we are getting ready to go home!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
DAY PLUS 34 - AUGUST 20, 2008
So far...so good! The numbers are amazing...his counts keep going up. Mr. T's white blood cells are 5.2 from 4.1.Neutropolys were 2.53 and now they are a whopping 3.54!
Dr. Sam told us T does not have GVH (graft versus host)...but he does have a viral infection from the stool sample and there is nothing to do for that. We can even go home with a viral infection.
We are still waiting for the opthamologist to come and see him as his eye is very red and caused him pain...but he hasn't come yet.
His doctor told me that Mr. T can now eat and drink whatever he wants...but he doesn't want to.
They advise not to have dairy foods right now with diarrhea. I'm trying to encourage him to have soup or crackers or even toast...he says he might tomorrow.
This afternoon we went for a pantamidine test....this is a treatment to discourage pneumonia on his lungs.
He asked me to buy him peanuts...so I bought 3 different kinds...and he's eating cashews. It's a start!
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
DAY PLUS 33 - AUGUST 19, 2008

Monday, August 18, 2008
KIND OF CONFUSED.............

DAY PLUS 32 - AUGUST 18, 2008

Sunday, August 17, 2008
DAY PLUS 31 - AUGUST 17, 2008
I need to be patient...I expect too much! Today...Mr. T didn't feel good. He threw up twice this morning (bile) and refused to eat. Later I pushed him in his wheelchair around the hallway twice...and even that was a lot. He was crying with muscle pain...needed hot packs on his legs & hydromorphone for the pain as well as gravol & ativan for nausea. I ran a hot tub for him...and that seemed to help a bit.Mr. T has lost a lot of muscle in his arms and legs from being in bed so much...so it will take time to strengthen him once again. He promised that tomorrow he will walk a bit on his own. One day at a time!
Saturday, August 16, 2008
DAY PLUS 30 - AUGUST 16, 2008
For awhile there...he had his days & nights reversed....maybe he's getting back on track now.
His WBC's are 2.9 ...
Also today....no more hydromorphone through his line. If he needs it he will have to take the medication orally. No more Stat probe on his toe....that's gone as well. Every day...small changes & baby steps till we can run...............all the way home!
Friday, August 15, 2008
DAY PLUS 29 - AUGUST 15, 2008

Wednesday, August 13, 2008
DAY PLUS 27 - AUGUST 13, 2008
Today neutropolys went from 0.51 to 0.78. Yahoo! Yippee! Hot diggety-dawg! White blood cells are 2.7.Mr. T did drink a bottle of iced tea this morning...but still refuses to eat. As anybody who has dealt with him knows how very hard-headed he is!
All day long I kept the television on the Food Network channel...and as well...I ate in his room with much moaning & groaning and smacking of the lips & drank or should I say slurped my drinks with a straw. Yes, I know the visuals are scary! But I'm desperate to get him eating again.
We will be out of isolation and into a step-down room on Friday!
Finally....out of solitary! Before you know it.....we'll be home-ward bound!
Isn't it amazing that he had the bone marrow transplant on July 17th....and we are not even a month....and Mr. T is doing so good?? I believe that its not only the medical care Mr. T received...but its also the 'power of prayer'. Prayer is the best medecine!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
DAY PLUS 26 - AUGUST 12, 2008
Today...Mr. T's white blood cells are 2.2. This morning he woke up and started playing his PS3 for an hour. That's a good sign! Today...they will remove the TPN just in the daytime....and as well cut back on the hydro-morphone.Also....Mr. T received a gift from the nurses and staff at Cheo hospital in Ottawa. He was thrilled when he read the card they all signed and left comments of encouragement and cheer for him. They must know him really well as they sent him a Manga binder and also Manga sketchbook with markers and crayons. They even sent me candy!
He felt really good to hear that they were all thinking of him and wishing him well.
He said......"tell NOAH TO THANK EVERYONE FOR ME" and I'll see them soon.
I'll be really anxious to see what his neutropolys are tomorrow.
They only do the bloodwork for that on Monday's, Wednesdays & Fridays.